As I meander through my Memory Forest…

via Daily Prompt: Meander  

 

I’ve been working on figuring out the meaning of my life for a number of years now. I have had some pretty traumatic interpersonal experiences and as a person of faith I have had difficulty understanding what those relationships were for. One thing that has helped is to allow myself to meander through my Memory Forest, to spend time with each of the representative trees, to observe them individually and get to know them thoroughly. As I meander away from each and get some perspective, I can understand how they fit together; how they nourish and impede one another; how they vary in species but how together they tell a comprehensive story. Initially when I started visiting my Memory Forest, I meandered down the same path. But as I got more comfortable and felt more safe among the memories, I started venturing off the well worn paths and started making new trails. Now when I enter the forest I can choose which path I want to take, and which trails I want to connect. My Memory Forest now is like a spider’s web rather than a bicycle wheel. There used to be lots of pest infected and rusty trees in my forest as well as poisonous plants, but as I take ownership of my Memory Forest and consciously choose what I want to keep and what I want to burn, my forest is becoming much more lush and vibrant. I don’t remove the deadwood, because it feeds new growth. But I do detoxify my forest, so now, whenever I meander through the Memory Forest of my life, I can appreciate what has been without being further hurt by it. This has been my experience of neuroplasticity and recovery from interpersonal trauma and ACEs. Now when I meander through my Memory Forest I can actually smell the flowers and hear the insects and birds and feel the wind whistling around the trunks and see the light dappling down through the foliage and warming my face.

Author: Elizabeth Perry

I am a 1st voice trauma educator, counselor, coach, peer supporter, consultant. I am passionate about addressing childhood trauma (ACEs) in adults, and helping those adults establish distinct autonomous free and empowered selves. Understanding the effects of our interpersonal relationships is key. I believe when we truly know ourselves and can understand others we can make healthy, informed decisions about our relationships which can benefit all involved, including nature. I constantly seek deeper self understanding and support others in doing the same through group training and one on one sessions. I'm most active on Twitter @eperryinsights My favourite hashtags are #HealthyRelationships #TraumaInformedByTraumaSurvivors #TraumaInformedCanada #ACEsAwareCanada #ACEsAllies #AdultsWithACEsRecovery

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